Personal Images 2012 | Kitchener Photographer

As this 2012 comes to an end, I look back at all the amazing things that this year has brought to my life. My girls are another year older.  I am no longer teaching massage therapy, nor am I treating massage therapy clients.  I am working on building two businesses.  I edit, day and night.  My hubby and I have been married 9 years.  My dog is 9 years old and my constant companion. I earned a merit in the NAPCP image competition.  I am able to volunteer at my girls' school on a regular basis.  I went to Dominican Republic with my family. I tried snowboarding. I earned my Photography Certificate from Conestoga College.  I created new friendships to last a lifetime.  I am a photographer.

I love every minute of my life, the ups and downs, the tantrums and the triumphs, the laughs and the sobs.  I try to capture as much as I can with my camera, because I know that these memories will only last for as long as they are remembered.  I am planning a big year-end post, showcasing all of my wonderful, loyal, patient and forever gracious clients, but I also wanted to share with you some of my favourite images from my personal collection from the past year.  I have so many that I love, but each of the images I chose are special because of the story, the memory and the moment.

I divided the images into three categories: Colour, Black & White and iPhone.   Not all of the images are technical perfection, but they are an honest, true reflection of my life.  I hope you enjoy the images and that they will give you a little insight into what makes my life complete. :)

M xo

Colour Images:

No More Pictures

Chalk Art

Best Friends

Little Miss Attitude

My Lovelies

Cousins

Too Young For Lipstick

Adoration

First Snow

Always Silly

Black & White Images:

Quiet Reflection

Bedtime at the Cottage

Bookworm

Belly Laugh

Water Fight

Are We Done Yet?

Somersault

Leap

Shared Laughter

iPhone Images:

Tantrum

Swim

Windblown

Morning at Camp

Droplets

Home Again

Scared of the Dark

Weekend Away

Drying Off

Just Because | Kitchener-Waterloo Child Photographer

Sometimes I just want to shoot for me.  Just because. It has been grey, rainy and damp around here lately, which typically doesn't inspire me to get out and be creative. But today was a different story.  Sitting in my basement office, space heater on full blast and woolly socks on my feet while the rain pattered on the windows, I suddenly felt the urge to get out and shoot.  I have been exploring a different side of my photography lately, and I wanted to do more.

My beautiful daughter agreed to be my muse for a little while, excited that I actually encouraged her to do her own makeup and would allow her to wear her favourite leather jacket.  I promised her a pack of gum for her efforts and off we went to a nearby parking garage, where I knew we would at least stay dry.

We worked fairly quickly, as it was darn chilly, but she was patient as I  fired away, playing with angles, light and moods. In the end we were both happy, she that we were on the way to the store for gum and I that I was able to free the creative energy.

Here are a few of the images I got of her, playful, contemplative, daydreaming and dancing.  I love the simple, minimalist feel of these images, which allow her personality and beauty to shine through.  I know I will cherish these forever.

M xo

Surrounded by Love | Kitchener Family Photography

This lovely family traveled all the way from Taipei, Taiwan, just for this session.   Ummm, okay, and to see family and friends and introduce their little man, but I like to pretend in my head that it is all about me. ;) Sonya and I have been friends since high school,  having formed a bond in unlikely circumstances involving teen girl drama (way too complex to explain, of course) and have managed to keep tabs on each others' life adventures over the years (thank goodness for Facebook!).  She now lives in far away Taiwan, after a stint in New Zealand, where she met her lovely hubby and needless to say, I was excited to have a chance to get together and catch up.

Of course her biggest news was her brand new baby boy! She and her hubby welcomed little Otis only three months ago, but he is already a world traveler, with a fresh Taiwanese passport to prove it!  He was welcomed home to Canada by many loving and adoring family and friends, but none more so that his very excited Nona and Deda.  Eager to fuss over him and watch his every move, the prerogative of every grandparent, they are quite obviously totally smitten with him.

We headed out on a lovely, warm summer morning to try to capture some family portraits, so that everyone could keep and cherish the memories of Otis' first visit to Canada.  Little did we know when we began that this was going to be a marathon rather than a sprint.  Whenever a baby is involved, there is no way to plan a shoot - the baby is in total control.  Naps, feedings, diaper changes and cuddles always take precedence over the lens (and rightly so!).   We all made the best of it, trading stories, catching up, discussing the trials and tribulations of parenthood and perfecting the virtue of patience.  :)

But let me tell you, when Otis was on, he was ON!  We ended up with lots of fun images and I am so honoured that this family chose me to be the one to capture these moments on camera.  Thank you all for spending your morning (and part of the afternoon) with me.  I loved every minute!

{M} xo

Friendship | Waterloo Portrait Photographer

Friends like Hilary are hard to find.  Loyal, kind, generous, caring, supportive and hilarious.  It is not hard to understand why she has so many friends, all of whom love her dearly. We met only a few short months ago, but already I count her among my closest confidantes and dearest friends.  We just GET each other.   We crack each other up - a LOT.   We have nicknames for each other that make sense to only us.  We talk in crazy voices to each other.  We can sit in a room not talking for hours on end and never feel awkward.  I understand her half-spoken, Blackberry-distracted sentences.  She buys me sunflower seeds with salt (because unsalted are gross).  She puts up with me being super-picky about images and I put up with her forgetting to title client discs.  We work as a team to get s**t done!

Occasionally, I run into another photographer or friend who admires Hilary and her work, and inevitably I am asked, "Do you really KNOW her???"  I sure do, and I am proud to be her friend.  Even when she is not as glamourous as in these images.  Have you seen her hair on a humid day? *wink*

 

 

 

Vacation! | Kitchener Children's Photographer

Dominican Republic, here we come!!! My family (including my wonderful in-laws) are heading out on a much-anticipated and much-needed vacation to lovely Puerto Plata, Dominican Republic.  For the next week or so I plan to do nothing but frolic in the pool with my girls, read a few good books and enjoy some relaxing down time.

I will be away beginning May 22nd through to June 1st and will have limited internet access during this time.  I will be responding to all inquiries upon my return.

And because no post is complete without an image, I am including this shot of my friend Claire, the daughter of my friend and mentor, Hilary of One for the Wall Photography.  Claire accompanied us on a recent shoot and she agreed to let me grab a few shots of her while we hung out.  This is the image she chose as her favourite. :)

See you all when I get back!!!

{M} xo

The Little Moments | Kitchener Family Photography

It is the little moments that count.  To me, there is nothing more special than to be able to capture a moment of love, connection and happiness with a photograph.  An image that can freeze that perfect time forever, to look back on as the years pass and the memories fade, serving to keep these moments alive in our hearts. This image is a perfect example.  It evokes so many emotions and remembrances with a single glance. My wonderful hubby, snuggling and tickling our girls as the late spring light fades and the cool breeze tickles the back of their necks.  Hands stained yellow from plucking nearby dandelions.  Laughter, love, happiness, pride and joy, all captured in one frame.  This moment is mine forever. 

{M} xo

Drama Is Her Middle Name | Kitchener Children's Photography

Does anyone else have a little drama queen on their hands?  Because I sure do. Brielle seems to be going through a phase right now where everything ends in tears, tantrums or a slamming door.  UGH!  I hope she is just getting it all out before the teenage years...  Please? LOL

Not the most gracious loser at the best of times (she has been known to flip the card table if she loses UNO), it was not surprising that she completely disintegrated when she thought she "lost" the annual Easter Egg Hunt after her sister found the coveted Shiny Egg.  One of her baskets got chucked across the lawn (she kept the fullest one of course) and then she stomped away to sulk under a tree while loudly protesting the outcome of the hunt.  Sigh.

Of course, being the caring, sympathetic mother that I am, I grabbed my camera to record the proceedings.  Don't worry, she got lots of hugs and soothing words once she calmed down.

All I know is that she is just like me and I dropped the attitude around thirteen.  Here's hoping we both survive the next six years.  :)

I hope your Easter was a little less dramatic than mine and you had the chance to enjoy this glorious spring weather!

{M} xo

Us | Kitchener Family Photography

I just realized that I totally forgot to share these images of my family from this past fall!  I shared them with friends and family as part of our yearly calendar but it just hit me that I never posted them here. These were taken on a sunny but chilly day back in November, when I dragged my family out for a few quick snaps for the calendar.  We loaded the couch in the back of our van and drove a very short distance to the parking lot of the Kitchener Memorial Auditorium (affectionately known as "The Aud".)  This row of evergreens is so awesome but not a very popular location for portraits, so we got a lot of curious stares and odd looks.  :D

I am sure that many of you can imagine how difficult it is to take your own family portraits.  Even with a remote trigger, it can be dicey.  Making sure everyone is in the right spot, looking at the camera and not picking their noses is a bit tricky.  I think we did pretty well, considering.  And the memories we made are now hanging proudly on our wall on huge canvases, so it was worth the headache!  I didn't even bother trying to hide the remote - way more difficult than you would think.  Oh well, why start being perfect now when not-quite-perfect is working so well for me? ;)

Daddy's girls - now and forever.  I am not sure that he even has circulation left in his baby fingers, they are wrapped so tightly.Even Charlie attempted to participate, but as you can tell from his expression, he is NOT impressed.And here we are - together for 11 years and married for 9 years.  More in love each and every day.My family is my everything and I feel so blessed and happy to live my life with and and for them.

{M} xo xo xo

Summer, is that you? | Waterloo Children's Photographer

I cannot believe that it is March!  My girls have had shorts and tees on for about a week now - in Canada, in the the spring.  WHAT?!  I am not quite ready for the heat, but it seems I had better adjust quickly. It really feels like summer.  Nearly 30 degrees and sunny for the past week, we have been digging out the bicycles, patio chairs and table, and picnic basket.  In fact, we snuck off to the riverside just last night for an impromptu evening picnic.  After deciding on the plan, Brielle was put in charge of packing the goods (which means we had cheese sandwiches, granola bars, mints, Kool-Aid and baby carrots for supper) and Emery was in charge of carrying the blanket to sit on. We loaded into the van and made for a beautiful spot along the Grand River in Waterloo.  We had a lovely time watching the river flow by, soaking in the sun and exploring the river bank's various flora and fauna.

Of course, before we packed up, I had to try to get some shots of my girls in the delicious, late afternoon light.  And that's when it all went to H-E-L-L.  Even though they knew we were going to take a few photos, the symptoms of PK (photographer's kids) showed up as soon as my camera came out of the bag.  I managed to snap a few, but most of the time was spent asking them to look at me, to stop scratching non-existent itches and to stop picking things off the ground. Sigh.

But even though they are definitely not my best or favourite images ever, I am going to share them here, because they represent the memory of that gorgeous, warm spring night when we had a picnic by the river and watched a dog chasing geese down the bank while we ate dry cheese sandwiches.  Bliss.  These are the memories I will take with me into the future.

I am amazed at how much Brielle's growing adult teeth have change the shape of her face and the look of her smile.  It is amazing and a bit heartbreaking at the same time.

Ironically, Emery was the least cooperative, but I ended up with more of her that I liked than of Brielle.  Go figure.

This is the only shot, of many, of both of the girls that was actually sort of usable.  Oh well, next time.

And by the way, this early spring means a longer warm season for shooting, so if you want to have some amazing family portraits in this beautiful light, it is not too early to book! :)

{M}

Great Wolf Lodge | Kitchener Family Photography

Flu be damned, we were going to enjoy our March Break.  With temperatures soaring into the mid-20s here in Ontario, we finally have spring breathing some life into our Vitamin D-deprived bodies. My parents had booked a family trip for us to Great Wolf Lodge, a family-friendly water park and theme "resort" in Niagara Falls, Ontario.  We headed down the highway, my brother and his girlfriend  and my parents accompanying us, for a weekend that was sure to be filled with fun.

Arriving Friday afternoon, we enjoyed a delicious supper, hit the water slides and then boogied to the tunes at the family dance.  Saturday (after a night filled with a chorus of flu-related coughing and snoring), we hit the water park after breakfast.  My hubby and brother, the biggest kids of all, went straight to the big water slides, me and my brother's girlfriend to entertain the kiddos.  We frolicked in the wave pool, enjoyed the smaller water slides and then called it quits for lunch.

After lunch, my brother volunteered to take the girls on a MagiQuest, a Harry Potter-inspired magic scavenger hunt that required a magic wand and a lot of patience.  My brother (and his girlfriend) helped them complete two quests while my Mom and I enjoyed a little people-watching in the grand lobby.

On Sunday, we hit the water park one more time before tackling the arcade.  And just when we thought we were done and cashed out our tickets, we realized that my brother's girlfriend had found the "special" silver token and she was awarded 100 bonus tokens.  Needless to say, the girls were thrilled!

Here are the compulsory snapshots of the girls in their wolf-ears and on the giant Adirondack chair.

We thoroughly enjoyed our visit to Great Wolf Lodge, and I think we are going to make it a yearly family adventure. 

Thanks for looking and stay tuned for lots of spring sessions coming your way!

{M} xo

 

The Flu | Kitchener Children's Photography

"Flu, flu, go away.  And never come another day!" The flu reared its ugly head at our house nearly two weeks ago.  First Brielle, then I and then Emery got sick.  And I mean SICK.  I am still feeling like a wet noodle nearly a week after it began.

And to deepen the despair, it is March Break here and the temperatures are soaring into the mid-teens.  We are stuck in the house, faces pressed to the glass in a desperate effort to suck the sunshine into the dark, Kleenex-filled corners.  Sigh.

But, things are starting to turn around a bit -Emery is coming around and my hubby has avoided the nasty little virus so far.  And in T-minus two days, we are headed to Great Wolf Lodge - that paragon of family fun and lukewarm pools filled with a plethora of germs.  Here's hoping our weakened immune systems are up for the challenge! :)

I snapped a quick image of Emery as she dozed fitfully on the couch the other day, in one of those fever sleeps that seems to only last long enough to have you wake up cranky.

And with that, I am handing the flu his eviction notice and looking forward with hope to our adventure down the QEW to lovely Niagara Falls.  Keep your fingers crossed we make it that far!

{M} xo

Thirty-Three | Kitchener Family Photographer

I turned thirty-three yesterday.  And I am totally fine with that fact.  I have a husband, two kids, a dog, a house and pay lots of taxes - thirty-three seems to fit this picture. I decided that I would spend the day recording a "Day in My Life" so that I could look back next year and see exactly how I spent my birthday.  I soon discovered that I am not nearly as interesting or busy as I think I am on a daily basis. I did, however, find out that I do spend a lot of time with my girls, I spend lots of time with my family and I am a dedicated student who goes to class even on her birthday.  All good things.

Here are some images from my day.  I chose to show them all in black and white, just for a bit of a change - hey, I'm thirty-three now, I am expanding my horizons!

I started my day dropping Emery off at Grandma"s house so that I could take Brielle to the doctor.  She has been sick for nearly a week, so it was time to get to the bottom of this mysterious illness.  Of course, before we left, the girls had to squeeze in a quick game of Go Fish, each taking a turn being Grandma's partner.

Brielle waiting to be examined at the doctor's office.  Turns out she has multiple viruses and all the doctor could prescribe was fluids and rest.  Which Brielle translated as Popsicles and Family Channel.  Oh boy.

After I got Brielle back to Grandma's to snuggle on the couch,  I drove Emery to the sitter's in the Vanicus Maximus (aka the Mom Taxi). I then went to work (as a massage therapist) and afterward came home to my lovely hubby making supper!  Emery helped to deliver my lovely card, signed by all my loves.And finally, I headed off to school to learn about the business of photography.  Interesting.

So that was my birthday.  No cake and candles, no big, flashy gifts (although a new lens wouldn't have been turned away).  Just another day in my life, full of love, family, friends and learning.  It was a beautiful day.

{M} xo

The Golden Rule | Kitchener Children's Photographer

We all know the Golden Rule : "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you."  It seems so simple. But lately, I have noticed an alarming trend in the photography community (not to mention the wider world).  It appears that the Golden Rule has been replaced by the motto "Do unto others whatever you need to do to get ahead."  I see this on forums, on Facebook, on Twitter and in person.  I have personally had some not-so-friendly interactions with fellow photogs that have left me feeling sad and discouraged.  And I am writing this, not to elicit pity, sympathy, to complain or to point fingers, but rather to point out that we are all professionals and we can all ACT like professionals.  We can help, support and encourage our peers without having to feel threatened or worry about our ideas being stolen.

This is how I feel when the negativity starts to fly:

On the flip side. I have also had some wonderful experiences with my colleagues in this craft, and it's the positive attitudes and helping hands that keep my faith in this industry.  I have met, chatted with and developed friendships with some amazing women who have helped me grow and flourish in this business.  Thank you to Hilary, Jenn, Martina, Kate, Sandra, Ashia and many others for your support, friendship and honesty.  *Hugs*

Now go out there, be positive and help to turn the frowns upside down! :)

{M} xo

Snow! | Kitchener Family Photographer

It is finally here (again)!  My girls had anticipated a snow day yesterday, when the reports were hyping a big storm set to arrive in the wee hours of the morning.  We woke up early, only to find a disappointing dusting of snow that was quickly turning to mush as the rain started to fall.  So they headed off to school dejectedly and I have to say, I was hoping for snow too.  We have had a pretty mild winter and I was looking forward to curling up with a book on the couch and watching the flakes fall. But then, last night, the "storm" arrived!  Right before I was heading to bed the wind picked up and the snow started to swirl.  And before I even before I opened my eyes this morning, I could tell by the light in my room that there was SNOW!  The next thing I heard was my girls hurriedly dressing as my husband fired up the snow blower in the garage.  I helped the girls bundle up and out they went, joy stamped on their little faces.

I watched from the window as they chased the dog, bombed down the slide and ate mitt-fulls of fresh, clean snow.  I ventured out, only for a minute to get one simple snap of them together, before the frolicking resumed.  And right now, as they sit on the floor near my feet, wrapped in blankets, thawing out and putting a puzzle together, my book and a cup of tea are calling my name!

Have a wonderful "snow day" everyone!

{M} xo

 

Chalk Art | Kitchener Children's Photography

I think it is amazing how kids are amused by the simplest things.  A mud puddle, a flowing fountain, putting stickers onto paper and colouring on anything!  They find joy, peace and fun in all the little things that we as adults forget to enjoy. When I got together with my good friends, Kate Emerson of Novella Photography and Martina Wendland of Martina Wendland Photography, we had every intention of photographing all of our girls in a little Easter-themed set-up that Kate had devised.  However, our little ladies were more interested in playing together than being photographed, and thus our carefully laid plans quickly went bust.  But then Kate had the genius idea to let the girls draw with chalk on the large piece of seamless paper we had tacked up on the wall as a backdrop.  All of a sudden, the girls were completely engaged and having a blast, drawing, smearing the lines, colouring on themselves and working together to create a large mural.  Fantastic!

I couldn't resist snapping a few shots as they worked, but I did do a bit of drawing as well!

At least little Miss A tried to cooperate with the Easter portion of the shoot!

Friends and chalk make for a wonderful afternoon!

Thanks again Kate and Martina for another great day of friendship.

{M) xo

Happy Family Day! : : Kitchener Family Photgrapher

It's Family Day weekend in Ontario, which means an extra day to hang out with my girls!  While I do  have some sessions this weekend, Monday is completely dedicated  to my wonderful family, to enjoy some snowboarding, a great meal and to make lots of new memories!  I personally think every day is family day, but if you're gonna give me a holiday, I'll take it! I leave you with this image of my Happy Meal pirates.  What a couple of characters.

Have a great weekend wherever you are in the world.  I am looking forward to showing you some new images in the coming week - check back often!

{M} xo

The Race Goes Not Always to the Swift : : Kitchener Children's Photography

In today's world, where anyone with a DSLR can take fairly passable images on "Auto", "photographers" are cropping up all over the place.  I understand the lure.  Snap a few photos, burn them to a disc, and walk away with a pocketful of cash.  Easy, right?

So many "photographers" hang out their shingle WAY before they are ready to compete in this market.  And I definitely put myself in this category.  After my first term in photography college, I was out there doing family and children's session for $70-90 including disc.  Ugh.  Just admitting it makes me cringe, shudder, self-flagellate and laugh at the same time.  I figured "Hey, while I am getting my formal education, I might  as well do my "on-the-fly" learning at the same time, AND make some money!"  Stupid, I know.

Now that I have nearly completed my photography program (three long years later), I can look back with that 20/20 vision of hindsight and see my mistakes.   I should have waited until my skills and knowledge were up to snuff.  I should have waited until I was ready to dedicate a significant amount of time and resources to promoting and sustaining a business, not an under-the-table side enterprise.  I should have learned to use Photoshop/Lightroom (which I did learn fairly early on, but still, some of the first edits - yikes!).  I should have had enough respect for the photographers that I admired, appreciated and blog-stalked to wait until I could set my prices appropriately without undercutting.  All these things I should have done, but didn't.

And now, from the viewpoint of a professional photographer, I think I see one of the reasons why this has become the trend.  Photography has lost its exclusivity.  For better and for worse.  It used to be that photography was a skilled artistic profession, or a really expensive hobby.  There was nothing in the middle.  But as the price of equipment dropped and the digital age of take-and-erase came upon us, the gap began to fill.  Photoshop and other digital editing software made it possible to "fix"images and thus it was perceived that less skill was required to do the same work. Wrong.  It still takes a level of skill and knowledge to be a photographer that can take years to refine.  You still have an eye for subject and composition.  And you definitely cannot put it on "Auto" and hope for the best (despite what your mother tells you.)  However, with the wider availability of prosumer equipment and more flexibility with digital technology, it has also opened the door to a whole host of new talent who may have been overwhelmed by the challenge of film  photography and would have never taken up the camera.  And we would be missing out on some incredible talent.  You win some, you lose some.

I say this not to offend any up-and-coming photographers, nor to judge anyone else's practices or work.   I just know that I made some mistakes when I was starting out that I wish I hadn't and if I can help another photographer avoid these pitfalls, or give a client the information to make a wiser decision when they are choosing a photographer, then I have met my goal.  Education and information are powerful tools, make sure to use them when choosing a photographer to capture your memories.

And now, because no rant, errr....post, is complete without images, I have some before and afters to help illustrate some of the things you should try to notice when browsing portfolios looking for a photographer.  There are some doozies...laugh along with me, people!  I used the same subject in each before and after to keep the images as comparable as possible.   And as a disclaimer, I am not saying that my images are THE BEST, but I hope you will see that I have definitely improved!   Consider this an official MBP public service advertisement.  :)

Okay, let's talk about subject.  The subject should be obvious in the photo, and the viewer's eye should be led to the subject by proper placement in the frame and the lack of distracting background/scenic elements. In the top image, I did a poor job of keeping the viewer's eye on the subject, since the dark lines in the background compete for attention.  In bottom image, I fixed this by filling the frame, allowing the viewer to truly focus on the subject without and distracting background.  A simple fix but an effective one.

Next, let's look at light.  In the  image on the left, the light was coming from the top and side, creating dark shadows in the eye sockets and a big contrast between dark and light on each side of the face.  The subject's eyes (which are a stunning ice blue) can't really be seen.  I should have had the subject either facing the light or with his back to the light to minimize the harsh shadows.  Plus, the image is a bit overexposed.  In the image on the right, I used back lighting to give the subject definition from the background and exposed properly for his face to ensure that I could see those dazzling eyes.  I also used the truck to frame the subject to have more visual impact.

In the next example, I want you to notice colour.  The top image has a very strong red-orange tint.  This could be due to poor White Balance (every type of light has a colour temperature that is not perceived with the naked eye, but is captured by the camera's sensor), or the colour of the leaves around this scene may have caused a colour cast.  It is particularly noticeable on the skin.  Either way, it could have been fixed in post-processing.  In the bottom image, after carefully selecting the proper white balance in-camera and with a little bump in post to warm it up, the skin tone is natural and even.

Okay, moving on to composition.  In the image on the left, the subject is slightly too far right in the frame, and his foot is cut off at the bottom, losing the feeling of the subject being grounded.  Whenever possible, the photographer should try not to cut  off limbs.  If limbs are outside of the frame (for stronger composition), they should not be cropped at a joint.  In the image on the left, the subject is well-balanced in the frame and the feet are in the shot, showing the viewer that he is grounded and whole!

The rule of thirds.  This is one of the most simple yet dynamic "rules" that photographers use to make their images look more polished and professional.  It basically means that the image is divided into three vertical and three horizontal sections, like a grid, and the most interesting placement for a subject on this grid is along the top or bottom line, or where the lines intersect.  If I knew how to put a grid on this image I would have! ;)  In the top image, the subject is in the centre of the frame, and though her eyes are in the top half of the image, the centering offsets this placement, all making for a boring image.  Plus the processing sucks! LOL  In the bottom image, the subject is slightly off centre and her eyes are near where the lines would intersect, making it a more appealing image overall.

Expressions matter.  In the top image, the subject looks like he turned around and was caught unaware.  In the bottom image, I simply waited until he was relaxed and playful, to capture a more natural expression.  Patience is ALWAYS key to capturing your subject at his or her most natural.  And whoo, what is with the weird fluorescent yellow undertones on that before shot? LOL

So there are a few examples of how I screwed up, and most of the "before" images are from when I was charging for my services.  Clearly, I should not have been taking people's money back then, but I was truly ignorant of how detrimental my actions were, not only to  me, but to the entire profession of which I was striving to become a part.  I have had to grow from each failure, misstep and missed opportunity.  However, all of those mistakes led me to my present standing, and I can proudly say that I am now running a totally legitimate part-time business while continuing to grow and learn at every opportunity.

Now go and have a good laugh at my before pictures...that's what I am going to do!

{M} xo

Happy Valentine's Day : : Kitchener Children's Photography

Today is the day to celebrate love, kindness, caring, friendship and family.  Tell the ones you love just how much you appreciate their presence in your life.  Pay it forward.

Happy Valentine's Day everyone!

{M} xo

Every Day Life : : Kitchener Family Photographer

Swimming lessons.  I have spent more hours at a pool than I can count.  I took swimming lessons nearly every week from age 6 months to 16 years, when I received my National Lifeguard Service Certificate.  So don't be fooled by my not-so-lithe physique, I am a cracker-jack swimmer (and apparently given to using phrases from 1955). And now, I am at the pool again.  My girls have been in lessons since they were babes and while they absolutely LOVE to swim, I can understand that the routine is a  little grating on the nerves at times.  Each week, we schlep to the pool, bathing suits itching under clothes, then jam towels, shoes and coats into tiny lockers in the steamy change room and elbow our way through the bottle-neck at the deck entrance for them to jump, backstroke, and bob.  And after I try to avoid dozing in the warm, white-noise filled viewing area, we race to the showers to claim a spot, towel dry, wrestle dry jammies over wet feet and arms (which is always tricky) and try to dry hair without getting blown away by the hurricane-force dryers.

But sometimes, if we get there a bit early, there are a few minutes to enjoy the relative quiet of the change room, in the space between one session ending and the next one beginning.  It was in such a moment that I captured this image.  To me, it speaks volumes, the silent story of our many hours spent at the pool, and countless more to come.

On a side note, I realize that most of my recent posts have featured personal photos.  This year, I am making a huge effort to capture more images of my family at rest, play, work and love.  I was inspired by fellow photographer, Dana Pugh of Short and Sweet Photography, whose blog post featuring her favourite photos of her family from last year moved me to tears.  Her work is so beautiful and it truly celebrates the joy in the little moments.  That is what I want my work to accomplish,  for your family as well as my own.  Thank you all for looking, I promise some new (not of my kids) work will be coming soon!  :)

{M) xo

Hold you Tight : : Kitchener Family Photographer

Emery has always been a snuggler.  From the day she was born, she has been happiest curled up in my arms or sitting in Daddy's lap.  She is just that kind of kid. And I have to admit, I truly dread the day when she outgrows my arms and wants nothing to do with snuggling.  I love having her cuddled up  with me, her fine hair smelly sweetly of fresh air and her heavy weight warm and soft against me.  Sigh.  Pure bliss.

As a photographer, it is hard enough to find time to be in front of the camera, but particularly, to capture those everyday moments that you cherish for a lifetime.  The morning kisses, the midday snuggles and the bedtime stories.  Sometimes I wish I had my own personal photographer to follow me around to capture these memories, and show the world "I was there too!".  But for now, I have to settle for some stolen time, on a warm fall afternoon, to sneak out into the backyard, put Brielle on a stool, set the camera settings and hope for the best.  She took 64 frames and this one was the only one that was even remotely in focus or had our heads in it.  But one is all I needed.

Love you Em-er!

{M} xo